What I Do
Confession upfront: Yes, I'm writing this in an effort to make myself feel better. I have been asked a few times in the last couple weeks, "So, what do you do?" My answer was, "I'm a stay at home mom." Response, "Oh! How old are your kids?" Me, "10 and 12." Response, "Oh, so do you home school?" Me, "No....nope. Don't home school." Response, "Oh." Then I would go on to justify why I didn't work, how they get out of school so early, how I need to be home with them in the afternoon. Yada, yada, yada. But, each time at the end of the conversation, I felt small. I felt like I added no value. In my head, I know this is not true, but I was having a difficult time articulating "what I do." I had a friend challenge me to find a more truthful answer. One that answers the question but also opens the door to conversation about why we've structured our family to be one where a paren